We cannot even guess what our friends think about us or something else. People’s minds are not open books at all so we can only imagine what they want from us. Sometimes it seems that you know someone perfectly and still he or she does something that no one can expect at all. That is why it is not easy to trust a girl who might have some bad intentions about your citizenship or fortune. How to understand what does she want from you?
The first thing that you have to take care of is her gestures and body language. Usually it is the thing that reveals our thoughts. If she leans forward to you when you are talking about you country that means she is interested in topic. Of course she might be a good listener who cares about what her boyfriend says however it is possible to trace the genuine side of it. If she changes her posture only during the discussion of the change of the citizenship that will mean other things are not interesting for her. Moreover if she keeps her arms and legs crossed when you talk about something else that will definitely mean she needs your country. That position is defending one so she expects to be revealed so she tries to protect herself from that.
Of course sometimes there are not smart enough girls whose actions might be revealed even during the listening to her. In linguistics scientists usually look for the stock of words that are used in the book or in human speech. There are some keys that are producing more frequently than others. If she keeps on talking about the wonders of your country then she is interested in it. If it is the only thing she talks about then it is at least weird. She might be obsessed with your motherland and it might be good because you are associated with it. On the other hand it might not mean love because you are a pleasant addition to your state and nothing else.
It is much easier to understand the truth about her thought when you talk a little wit her relatives and friends. They will tell you what she likes and dislikes so you will be able to make a conclusion what she is a kind of person. There are a lot of women in Russia who want to change the country but to do it with a man whom they love. Ladies are not that spoilt to look for the foreigner due to some evil reasons. That is why it is probable but she does love you and she does want to leave Russia. Thus it is impossible to understand how she shows her affection. Even the most modest girl in the world will reveal her love to someone. If she touches you gently all the time or if she wants to sleep in bed with you and hugs all the time in it so she is in love with you. It is also important to see how the waiting of the moving out of the motherland changes her. If she stays the same then it is important for her but not that much as to be with her boyfriend.
The thoughts of other human-being will always remain a secret for us. We might notice some changes in mood but still it is not enough to see the whole picture. That is why it is important to be a good listener and also to look for her actions because they might say something to you. If you are attentive then undoubtedly you will find out what she is up to whether it is a love or simple desire to use you.
